Oklahoma Child Abuse Lawyers

Heartbreakingly, thousands of children are abused each year. When it comes to these cases, it’s important to know the facts. We’ve compiled a guide to assist in the understanding of the different types of child abuse, how to recognize the signs, and the legal implications. If you suspect a child is your life is being abused, call the Childhelp National Hotline at 1-800-4-A-CHILD for immediate assistance.

How Prevalent Is Child Abuse?

…the third leading cause of death among children between one and four years of age: homicide.

Most Americans would be shocked to know the third leading cause of death among children between one and four years of age: homicide. Only accidents and congenital issues claim more lives of toddlers than intentional death.

Each year, the Administration on Children and Families, a subsidiary of the United States Department of Health and Human Services, produces a report called Child Maltreatment. The report contains child abuse and neglect data collected via the National Child Abuse and Neglect Data System (NCANDS), as well as commentary and interpretation of that data. The report, now in its 23rd year, provides information about the number of child victims of abuse or neglect and the responses of Child Protective Services (CPS) agencies. (These agencies are referred to by many different names across the country, including Department of Family and Children Services (DFACS), Department of Social Services (DSS), Department of Children and Families (DCF), or Social Services.)

According to Child Maltreatment 2012, released in December 2013, abuse and neglect accounted for the deaths of 1,640 children in the United States during 2012.

On average, more than four children die every day because parents, caregivers, or others choose to have them die.

Of course, most cases of child maltreatment do not result in the death of a child. CPS agencies estimate that more than 6 million children were reported as potential victims of abuse or neglect in 2012. Eventually, a little over a third of the reports were screened out as not being true cases of maltreatment. Anecdotally, most CPS agencies believe that child abuse is under-reported instead of over-reported, meaning that it would not be unreasonable to estimate the number of children abused at well over 5 million per year in the United States.

By far the children most likely to be abused are infants and toddlers. After the age of 4, the rate of abuse drops until the age of 12 when there is a slight increase again. The victims are mostly white (44 percent of all reports), followed by Hispanics at almost 22 percent and African Americans at 21 percent. Boys and girls were abused at almost equal rates.Boys and girls were abused at almost equal rates.

Who Abuses Children?

The perpetrators of these crimes were overwhelmingly the persons pledged to protect children. Mothers are involved in the abuse more than half the time. Nearly four-fifths of the time, one or both biological parents were shown to be responsible for the abuse. Foster homes and group homes, although often the target of bad press, account for less than 1 percent of the total deaths. And the people we would like to blame, the people we teach our children to fear, are not often to blame. Persons who have no caregiving responsibilities for the children, the strangers we would like to associate with the danger, commit only about 3 percent of the abuse of children.

Types of Child Abuse

In any discussion of child maltreatment or abuse, there is always the question—what distinguishes abuse? Although childrearing experts overwhelmingly agree that no amount of corporal punishment is appropriate, most jurisdictions allow some degree of corporal punishment by parents and other caregivers. In fact, the line between discipline and abuse is almost impossible to discern in some cases.

Federal law defines child abuse and neglect as, at minimum: “Any recent act or failure to act on the part of a parent or caretaker which results in death, serious physical or emotional harm, sexual abuse or exploitation; or an act or failure to act which presents an imminent risk of serious harm.”

(42 U.S.C.A. §5106g) However, while the reality of death is clearly understood, the concept of “serious physical or emotional harm” is less concrete.

Physical abuse, like pornography, seems to fall into the category of “I know it when I see it” rather than an easily defined, clearly recognizable model. Recent cases involving sports figures make this point clear. When Vikings’ running back Adrian Peterson left bruises and actual open cuts on his four-year-old son’s legs and buttocks, Texas law enforcement called it child abuse. However, many fans called the action the appropriate discipline of a child. Commentator Charles Barkley went so far as to say that such “whippings” are so commonplace that if all law enforcement agencies implemented the law so strictly, “Every black parent in the South is going to be in jail.”

In a paper published in Law and Contemporary Problems, Coleman, Dodge, and Campbell point out that the diversity of the United States is a significant problematic factor in creating specific definitions. As these authors point out, different cultures have different views of discipline, different religions have different views of appropriate medical care, and different ethnicities have different parenting practices. To codify a single definition that could withstand the pressures of challenges from the different groups would be almost impossible.

Some states have tried. Pennsylvania identifies abuse as an injury that “causes a child severe pain; or significantly impairs a child’s physical functioning, either temporarily or permanently.” Arkansas law forbids striking a child under six in the head or face, although whether that is permissible for older children is not addressed. Florida law is quite specific with regard to “serious injury” and designates abuse as “willfully inflicted sprains, dislocations, or cartilage damage” or “intracranial hemorrhage or injury to other internal organs.”

Although it is not clear how to define child abuse, most authorities accept the six basic forms of child abuse as described in the Federal Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act: Physical, Sexual, Emotional, Neglect, Abandonment and Substance Abuse.

Physical abuse

On the other hand, since some forms of physical discipline are allowed in every state, it may be difficult to distinguish between acts done in the name of parenting and those done as abuse.

Physical abuse, in its severest form, is one of the most easily recognized forms of child abuse. Although active children often have scrapes or bruises from their rough and tumble play, it is difficult to explain away certain evidence. For example, it is difficult for the back of the legs to sustain bruising accidentally. On the other hand, since some forms of physical discipline are allowed in every state, it may be difficult to distinguish between acts done in the name of parenting and those done as abuse.

Some courts have held that bruises in any location that are so severe that they last more than a week are a cause for action. Other courts have used the location of the bruising (other than the buttocks), the duration of the bruising (more than one week), or the severity of the bruising (demonstrated by the color of the bruise). The North Carolina Court of Appeals upheld that spanking was an acceptable method of child discipline whether an implement such as a belt was used or not. However, in a 2006 decision, that court did provide a list of incidents and injuries that should be considered abusive: choking, hitting with fists and glass objects, pulling out hair, and burning. Although this may seem strange to view as a breakthrough, many previous courts had only used the nebulous term “reasonableness” as criteria for the distinction between abuse and discipline.

Significantly, some jurisdictions have acknowledged that physical contact that is beyond the understanding of the child is abusive. For example, in 2004, the Canada Supreme Court ruled that spanking a child under the age of two was abuse because the child was developmentally incapable of understanding the concept of discipline. Connecticut’s courts have also ruled that the child’s level of understanding is a factor in determining whether the actions taken rise to the level of abuse.

Sexual abuse

Sexual abuse is a concept that seems clearer to most Americans. Put simply, sexual activity with a person under the age of consent is repugnant to the majority of the population. But the line may be fuzzier in some areas. Fondling genitals, exposure of children to explicit sex acts, and using children to create pornography are also forms of abuse. Of course there are the most blatant sexual abuses of children such as child prostitution, but far more common are cases of incest, statutory rape, and indecent exposure. These occur frequently in the home under the guise of “expressing love” or helping the child understand sexuality.

Emotional abuse

Emotional or psychological abuse is defined by the Federal Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act as a pattern of behavior which impairs the child’s emotional development or feelings of self-worth. Emotional abuse is one of the most difficult types of abuse to prosecute by itself. CPS agencies rarely try to bring this case unless there is also some other form of abuse. However, other forms of abuse seldom exist without some psychological component.

Like adult battered domestic violence victims, abused children are often told that they have brought this punishment on themselves, that no one but the abuser could ever tolerate them at all, and that they are worthless.

Emotional abuse is sometimes trivialized by courts because it is often used as a ploy rather than a legitimate complaint in contested child custody cases. In an effort to obtain custody, one parent claims that the other “withholds love” from the child, or “constantly criticizes” the child. If there is no outward sign of maltreatment, these charges are hard to substantiate without costly psychological investigation. Instead, they are often dismissed altogether.

Interestingly, 22 states now recognize that witnessing abuse of other persons, even if the child is not touched, is damaging to the child. If a child is required or allowed to see domestic violence, these states impose additional consequences varying from requiring the abuser to pay for counseling for the child to allowing add-on charges of child maltreatment.

Neglect

Neglect is defined as failure to provide for the child’s basic needs. In general, there are four different forms of neglect: physical, medical, educational, and emotional.

The finding of emotional neglect is dependent on several factors such as cultural values, the standards of care in the local community, and poverty. For example, if there is no access to psychological care in the community, it is not maltreatment to fail to provide this care. A lack of resources to provide adequate clothing for a child to attend school might be considered a defense to failing to send a child to school. However, if information or other resources are made available to the family so that the children’s needs can be met and yet the neglect continues, neglect can rise to the level of legal intervention.

Abandonment

Abandonment is closely related to neglect. A child is considered abandoned when the parent’s identity or whereabouts are unknown or if a parent has failed to provide reasonable support or make contact over a certain length of time. Abandonment also occurs when a child who is left alone and suffers serious harm regardless of how long that period is. Most states provide for parents of infants to relinquish custody of their infants to a safe haven, usually a hospital, fire station, or police station. However, there is no state that provides for the safe transfer of custody for children over the age of a year.

Substance abuse

Substance abuse maltreatment of a child is acknowledged in most states. This form of maltreatment can take several forms.

ABC News aired a report in August of 2014 that showed that 20 percent of drug abusers in 70 Phoenix House drug treatment programs were introduced to illegal substances from their parents or other family members while they were minors. Whether this was an ill-advised attempt at bonding or simply because the parents were too involved in their own drug use to care whether the children were using drugs is not clear from the research.

The fourth way of abusing or neglecting a child through substance abuse is when the caregiver for the child is so impaired by substance abuse that he is unable to care for the child. This is often the case in homes that also serve as meth labs or homes where substance abusers gather.

Recognizing Child Abuse

When child abuse is presented in a school, it is common for a child to self-disclose that he has been abused. Until that point, the child had not realized that what was happening to him was not happening to other children.

Of course, some child abuse or neglect is easy to identify. Unexplainable bruises, burns in unexpected places, or severe malnutrition are fairly easy to see. Bruising in the genital area or pregnancy in a minor is an obvious sign of sexual activity. But other signs may be more subtle. Some signs of normal childhood growth patterns mimic the behavior of abused children. Other stresses in the family home such as divorce or a new child can also look like signs of early abuse. Most signs of child abuse need to be investigated not as sure indicators that abuse is occurring but as indicators that the child may be concerned about something. Care must be taken. Remember that a clumsy investigation may be more traumatic to the child than the activity that is actually occurring.

Accordingly, these signs are offered as indicators that more investigation may be needed.

  1. Unexplained injuries. If the child is bruised or injured more frequently or more severely than other children of the same age, this may prompt questions. Sometimes the injury’s location is an indicator. Burns, for example, are more likely to be on hands or arms as a child touches or brushes against a hot stove. Burns on the legs or back are less likely to have an innocent explanation. Further, a bruise in the shape of a fist or a belt buckle needs investigation.
  2. Explanations that are nonexistent or inconsistent. Children may find it hard to keep a false story straight. They may tell the caregiver that they fell down the stairs but tell a playmate that they fell while climbing a tree. Bear in mind that children do experiment with self-aggrandizement, but if the story changes too much or makes no sense, there may need to be an investigation. Likewise, if a caregiver explains an injury that she says she witnessed differently from the child’s explanation or if the explanation is inconsistent with the injury, investigations should be initiated. Special interest should be paid when the caregiver identifies all injuries as the child’s “fault.” Certainly some children are clumsier than others, and some children take bigger risks on play equipment, both leading to more injuries. But if a child is identified by a caregiver in one location as “awkward and always falling down” but seems well coordinated in other locations, there is reason for concern.
  3. Fear in the child. Children sometimes cry when they are sent to school because home is more fun. Likewise, some children want to stay at daycare where their friends are. However, if a child seems frightened of changing locations, if she fights being moved to a new location, or if she seems extremely uncomfortable around the person who is trying to take her to the new location, this may be a cry for help.
  4. Returning to earlier behaviors. A child who is abused often wants to return to a time before this abuse happened. At the age of five, he may suddenly demand a bottle instead of a cup, or he may regress to thumb-sucking and bed-wetting. However, these signs often pop up during other stressors, even happy ones. A new child in the home, a move to a new home, or other changes might make a child want to return to “the good old days.” Again, this indicates a cause for concern but not necessarily a cause for alarm.
  5. Changes in eating or sleeping. Children who are being abused sometimes eat for comfort and sometimes in a desperate attempt to gain so much weight that they will be unlikely to be the object of someone’s sexual desire. Some children seem to eat almost uncontrollably at school because they are aware there will be no food at home. Abused children may also refuse to eat because they have no real interest in continuing their lives. Stress can change patterns of eating and sleeping for children just as it does for adults. Certainly abuse can be a significant stressor, but these signs may also mark a growth spurt, or a concern about school or home that has nothing to do with abuse. Again, significant changes should be investigated although they are not sure indicators of abuse.
  6. Changes in school attendance. Home-based abusers sometimes keep children home until bruises fade or may keep the children home and away from their friends as a punishment for a child. Significant absences may also indicate that there is a lack of concern for the child’s education due to substance abuse or just apathy. Children may also miss school because of an illness that has not been addressed. The child may not be receiving adequate medical care.It may even be that the child is not sent to school because he has no clothes for school. In any case, truancies need to be investigated.
  7. Significant changes in behavior patterns. These may be a sign of a maturity or another sign of abuse. Previously cautious or “normal” kids that suddenly engage in risk-taking behaviors like drug use or carrying weapons may have decided their lives are not worth being cautious about. Kids who go from happy-go-lucky to perfectionist may believe that if they can just be “good enough” they will no longer be abused.
  8. Lack of personal hygiene. This can be an indicator of a neglectful parent or, in older children, a personal choice. In small children, a lack of hygiene may also mean the child is being raised in a methamphetamine manufacturing house. Due to caustic materials being poured down toilets or sinks, it is not uncommon for meth houses to be without running water of any kind.
  9. Sexual behavior inappropriate for age. Children who have been sexually abused may assume that all adults wish to use them that way. They may demonstrate overly sexual behavior or use sexually explicit language. Of course, this same behavior may be seen as normal exploration and experimentation in older teens.
  10. Fearful or watchful behavior. Children who are being abused become adept at becoming inconspicuous when they feel threatened. This may include hiding when a threat is perceived or shrinking away from any touch. Victims may seem pessimistic, always expecting something bad to happen.

At one time, abuse by parents was considered a private, domestic matter and was not addressed by law enforcement until there was severe damage inflicted. Over time, this has changed. Now 48 states have “required” or “mandated” reporters such as social workers, teachers, doctors, counselors, child care providers, and law enforcement officers. New Jersey and Wyoming do not require that any group of persons report suspicions of child abuse but join with all states in allowing and encouraging all persons to report suspected abuse or neglect. Some states add other professionals to the mandated reporters list. Among the additional professions are: film developers, parole and probation officers, college staff, staff of children’s activity centers, and members of the clergy.

Preventing Child Abuse

Child abuse has a number of causes, and preventing it is a complex process. Factors that contribute to child abuse are often those that cause societal issues in general, such as drug use, poverty, unemployment, mental illness, and ignorance. Addressing these problems en masse is overwhelming, but addressing small parts has proven effective.

Effective programs are run by a number of private and government based groups that address prevention. On a nationwide basis, these include Prevent Child Abuse America, FRIENDS National Resource Center, Circle of Parents, and Stop It Now!

Among activities that have shown promise are:

  1. Strengthening parenting. Child abuse can result when the parents feel overwhelmed by the stressors in the home. Accordingly, some programs offer parenting classes, anger management classes, and home visiting programs that provide support and assistance to expecting and new mothers. Additionally, parent support groups, where parents can work together to develop parenting strategies and strengthen families, have been effective.
  1. Crisis control. A crisis can turn an otherwise healthy home into an unsafe environment. In these cases, some programs offer respite care and crisis care for children, hoping to defuse situations that might lead to abuse or neglect.
  1. Making more people aware of child abuse and its signs. Public awareness campaigns such as public service announcements, posters, and brochures can help identify maltreatment. Additionally, this can help caregivers realize when they may need help in controlling their behaviors. These public information campaigns can also help promote healthy parenting and child safety as well as provide information about how to report suspected maltreatment.
  1. Child education. Skills-based lesson plans can teach children safety and protection skills, specifically regarding sexual abuse. Programs that help children distinguish between “good touch” and “bad touch” and between “bad secrets” and “happy surprises” have shown progress in helping children protect themselves against predators. These presentations also help children understand that if they have been abused the fault lies in someone other than themselves.
  1. Family resource centers. These centers provide a variety of services and educational opportunities to help people in the community. Key to their success is the shaping of programs to the specific needs of the surrounding neighborhoods.

Child Abuse and the Law

Once a charge of child maltreatment has been brought, Child Protective Services (CPS) agencies and often law enforcement step in. The prosecution of maltreatment cases is notoriously difficult for a number of reasons. Along with the problem of drawing lines between appropriate discipline and abuse, there are other issues to consider.

  1. Children usually do not want to talk about the abuse. This may be because they have been told by the abuser that it is a secret, or because of a sense of shame or guilt, or because they do not have the language to describe it properly. In any case, this lack of detail from the person who is the victim and often only witness makes preparing a case more challenging.
  2. Despite the abuse, there is sometimes an emotional bond between the child and the abuser. Even if the child wants the abuse to stop, he sometimes does not want the abuser punished.
  3. Child maltreatment crimes often occur over time. Since children may have only minimal understanding of time, the facts are sometimes hard to establish.
  4. Despite popular belief, children do lie about abuse. They may accuse an innocent party because of a bond they have with the real abuser; they may make up a story of abuse to avoid punishment for an infraction they themselves committed; or they may even create fiction for attention. In one documented case, a girl of eight was interviewed by an officer regarding the domestic abuse between her mother and father. The kindly officer bought her an ice cream and gave her a stuffed animal. Although there was no further abuse in the home, the child knew there was no use asking her impoverished family for ice cream or toys. She called 911 and reported further abuse simply to have these treats again.
  5. Child maltreatment cases often cross jurisdictional lines, involving civil, criminal, and administrative investigations.
  6. Put simply, the criminal justice system was not built to handle the special needs of children as victims or as witnesses.

Child advocates

All states have statutes that provide for a maltreated child to have a representative in the judicial process. Depending on the state, this may be an attorney, a guardian ad litem (GAL), or a court appointed special advocate (CASA). The local requirements for a GAL or CASA representative vary from being a trained layperson to being an attorney. The duties of these representatives vary from court to court but usually include:

Since the GAL or CASA is not directly involved in sanctions for the abuser, he can concentrate more fully on the needs of the child victim. He will be seeking services the child may need for rehabilitation and ensuring that they are delivered. Additionally, he may be involved in one of the most difficult of decisions: whether to remove the child from the abusive home.

Where does the child go?

Sometimes this issue is settled by the sanctions of the court. If the abuser is a parent and he is sentenced to prison, there may be no home for the child to return to. Care in either some form of foster home or a relative’s home will be required. In other cases, where the abusers remain in the home, the child’s return to the home is determined by either the court or the CPS agency in the case.

Public opinion on whether a child should or should not be removed from an abusive home swings like a pendulum. Parents’ rights groups advocate for maintaining the family unit. Additionally, many child advocates believe that, if the original home can be made safe, it is the best environment for the child. Permanency is a valuable part of a child’s sense of well-being. Foster care can seldom provide a permanent placement. Children in foster care have an average of three placements and it is not uncommon for a single child to be moved 20 to 30 times.

However, when a CPS or court order is overly optimistic and returns a child to the home only to see the child further brutalized or killed, the public demands that children be removed from an abusive home permanently.

Unfortunately, licensed foster care and appropriate relative care are not always readily available. Overcrowding of these resources is notorious and the demand is unending. For example, the Georgia United Methodist Children’s Home, a state approved foster organization, reports that it receives between 20 and 25 requests for foster care a week that it cannot fulfill.

And the cost is overwhelming.

At nearly $40,000 a year per child, Americans spend $22 billion a year on the foster care system.

Ideally the GAL or CASA remains involved while the child is in an out-of-home placement. If the representative remains in touch with the child, there is evidence that:

The most common goal in the foster care system is successful reunification with the family. However, studies by the University of California, Berkley pointed out that 25 percent of reunification efforts ended with the child back in care. The study concluded that the common “ready or not, here I come home” reunification program, almost assured failure. Careful planning, resources for the family, and other services were needed.

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If you suspect a child is your life is being abused, call the Childhelp National Hotline at 1-800-4-A-CHILD for immediate assistance. If you have any suggestions for improving this guide, please feel free to contact us.